After telling a fellow cohort about an odd remark that my Education professor made about my clothing today, she says, “Can I be brutally honest? It is probably because you are a woman of size.” Also, she says this to me at a table with six other women. First of all, what the fuck is a “woman of size”? Aren’t we all women (or people for that matter) of size?? Everyone has a size. She was obviously referring to my larger appearance, but I seriously don’t understand her approach. Second of all, thank you for demeaning my entire existence by stating that I am just a “woman of size.” By referring to me as such, you are belittling my accomplishments, self-worth, and confidence as a woman and a human being. Finally, where the fuck do you get off by telling me your opinion of my body??? My body is none of your concern. By the way, while you’re at home enjoying time with your friends, finishing your homework and eating a nice dinner, I am at the gym trying to silence selfish, idiotic voices like yours telling me that I am not good enough, worthy of love-attention-and-self-confidence. I would never dream of humiliating anyone the way that you (and others just like you) have humiliated me. I am beyond tired of the sense of entitlement that comes with identifying another person’s flaws and short comings. Mind your own fucking business and stop kidding yourself. By trying to express your opinions of me with “tact,” you have only shown me that you have no class and respect for other women. This is last time that I will swallow this type of negativity with silence.